WHAT READERS ARE SAYING
"I have a nephew who is gay but has only partly 'come out', so I have a better understanding to bring to him now and must have him read the book." Felicity Rademeyer
"This important work takes the words of South Africa’s Truth &Reconciliation Commission to heart. ‘Reconciliation and healing cannot occur in the absence of knowledge and understanding.’ Read FINDING MY OWN WAY and let your own healing begin." John M Rock – HIV/AIDS Activist
"She has a story to tell on behalf of so many and does it in a way that celebrates who she is, but without freaking out the more antediluvian conservatives who still walk among us". New York Literati
"The writing is smart, light, considered and moving. I like that it is personal and how the writer locates her life in the context of so much oppression. The juxtaposition of the fear behind the laws and how completely unthreatening her voice is works powerfully."Jennifer Cohen – former New York literary agent & bookseller
"Should you be lucky enough to have a friend, a child, a sister, an aunt or a colleague who is gay this book answers many of the question you'd never dare to ask. While at the same time it gives deeper understanding of people who are ' different' allowing us to be kinder and less judgemental of the minority groups among us." International Review
"Wish I had read this book years ago to help me make sense of the journey ahead of me." James Rudden
"I've laughed so much. Never realised that being gay could be such fun. Thanks. This could be my story especially the part about being a rabbit in the headlights!" Fiona Capelle
