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&lt;p align=&quot;center&quot; style=&quot;margin: 3.75pt 0cm; text-align: center; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:14.5pt;font-family:Times;mso-fareast-font-family:
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&lt;p style=&quot;background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;&quot;&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:9.0pt;
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minor-fareast;color:#222222;mso-fareast-language:EN-US&quot;&gt;FINDING MY OWN WAY...to
happy &amp;amp; gay&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:Helvetica;
mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;ＭＳ 明朝&amp;quot;;mso-fareast-theme-font:minor-fareast;
color:#222222;mso-fareast-language:EN-US&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;is an often amusing, often
heart-breaking account of the coming out process for a lesbian in 60s South
Africa. The author locates her life in the context of so much oppression. And
the contrast of the fear behind the apartheid laws, and how completely
unthreatening her voice is, works powerfully.&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p style=&quot;background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:9.0pt;
font-family:Helvetica;mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;ＭＳ 明朝&amp;quot;;mso-fareast-theme-font:
minor-fareast;color:#222222;mso-fareast-language:EN-US&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;As South
Africa grew into democracy so the author too grew into wholeness and
authenticity. But it wasn’t all sliding along on buttered feet. There was angst
and anguish along the way, battles won, hopes lost and many dodgy landings. The
challenges she met then, are still those faced by gay people the world
over&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 9pt; line-height: 1.22;&quot;&gt;today… how to tell
their folks, when to confess to their friends, how much to tell their
employers, and more.Although the book is set in South Africa, the coming out
process poses the same hurdles, obstacles and crises no matter where you
live... it's simply a case of same circus, different tent. And it’s good to
know you’re not alone.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p style=&quot;margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:Helvetica;color:#222222&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp; Should you
be lucky enough to have a friend, a child, a sister, an aunt or a colleague who
is gay the book answers many questions you might never dare ask. For those on
their way out of the closet it will keep you company all the way to being both
happy and gay!&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p style=&quot;margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-size: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:9.0pt;font-family:Helvetica;color:#222222&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;And if
you are already out and perfectly happy, then you may find that this is ‘&lt;em&gt;your&lt;/em&gt;’ story. And you’ll have a good
laugh remembering all the pitfalls and pratfalls you experienced along the way.&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormalCxSpFirst&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormalCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p class=&quot;MsoNormalCxSpMiddle&quot;&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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            <pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2015 08:04:34 +0100</pubDate>
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